Update on Romeo - because I know ya'll are sitting on the edge of your computer chairs wondering LOL
I put him in the "hot" 55 with the Balloon Cichlid crew (and everyone else - all nice) and the flow in there in spots is pretty strong - so I fear that it might be too much for Romeo - even in the "dead" spots - which they aren't a lot of. He seems to be swimming too hard to me. Fins a flappin' constantly. I don't have a whole bunch of experience with Bettas, but the other one I do have in the Endler Prego-A-Rama tank, likes to just sit on a plant and do whatever. The bowl - however stable and still - wasn't good.
His fins have yet to recover from the Snippy Pants Pea Puffer Gang.