Not a cichlid
Found it!!!! and it is not an african.... fish is called a black banded leporinus... it is from central and south america, and its not a cichlid.... Has 5 stripes as a baby, stripes slowly multiply becoming 8-10 stripes as an adult.... oh, and watch out, they can jump out of your tank!
The only other black striped light colored african cichlids would be the frontosa, and that is definetly not one... I know those really well.... or the talapia butterkoire(sp).... and I had one of those too, doesnt look at all like the one you have.
Im almost 100% sure based on that pic, and the amount of stripes he/she has. here is a pic I found online.