exfishnoob
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It all started 3 years ago when My boyfriend and I started dating. He lived in a house with 4 other guys, one of whom had a big 55 gallon mixed community tank. He loved feeding them, and just sitting and watching the tank after a long night of graveyard shift clerking at 7-11. I lived in my tiny studio apt cross town with my 2 tiny goldfish, Buck and Bob..caring for them gave me some relief from a stressful job, a 19 credit hour school schedule, and a bad case of empty nest syndrome with my 2 kids all grown up and a recent divorce.
Fast forward a year. Relocation to Portland and a beautiful 2 bedroom house rental. BF is missing the giant fish tank..Buck and Bob seem lost in their 5 gallon tank in such an expansive space. So..for a birthday present, I purchased a 10 gallon tank..and stocked it with a crap load of mollies, neon tetras and assorted other "shiny" fish bought at pet store chain. The mollies had babies....and then..disaster struck. ICK!!!! the whole tank floated in 2 days. Cycling? wth is cycling? LoL
So...a 40 gallon tank was purchased. Stocked again..with the addition of some bottled bacteria...all the baby angels have been replaced..as they slowly but surely died off. The last of the platies was last seen with it's tail sticking out of Sundance's mouth as he quickly outgrew his tank and mates...The second Tin Foil Barb swam up into a castle decoration, committing Hari Kari by getting wedged. ( you should have seen us trying to figure out where a 4 inch fish could have disapeared to...) the death of one of the albino rainbows causes us to purchase a new rainbow..and the territory bullying begins..ok. RESEARCH TIME!!! Wow. Ok. a New ( used ) 90 gallon tank is brought home. Sundance gets 2 new tank mates of his breed so he is happy..the more aggressive Rainbow shark gets moved. ( who knew they were singular fish, the 2 albinos loved each other )
We have decided we want a planted tank..some fish that are not compatible with the ph and water movements we currently have...a QT tank..more plants...shopping for a few new tanks ensues. The furniture is rearranged...some things we don't need go bye bye...( china hutch? who needs that antique china set anyway..we don't use it...) hour long drives to go look at a tank set up Cheap on Craigslist....afternoons spent wandering LFS and writing copious notes...nights spent in front of the computer reading multiple sites to cross reference water parameters and environmental needs...huge bookmark lists of fish disease identifiers...sigh. yup. We got it bad.
Fast forward a year. Relocation to Portland and a beautiful 2 bedroom house rental. BF is missing the giant fish tank..Buck and Bob seem lost in their 5 gallon tank in such an expansive space. So..for a birthday present, I purchased a 10 gallon tank..and stocked it with a crap load of mollies, neon tetras and assorted other "shiny" fish bought at pet store chain. The mollies had babies....and then..disaster struck. ICK!!!! the whole tank floated in 2 days. Cycling? wth is cycling? LoL
So...a 40 gallon tank was purchased. Stocked again..with the addition of some bottled bacteria...all the baby angels have been replaced..as they slowly but surely died off. The last of the platies was last seen with it's tail sticking out of Sundance's mouth as he quickly outgrew his tank and mates...The second Tin Foil Barb swam up into a castle decoration, committing Hari Kari by getting wedged. ( you should have seen us trying to figure out where a 4 inch fish could have disapeared to...) the death of one of the albino rainbows causes us to purchase a new rainbow..and the territory bullying begins..ok. RESEARCH TIME!!! Wow. Ok. a New ( used ) 90 gallon tank is brought home. Sundance gets 2 new tank mates of his breed so he is happy..the more aggressive Rainbow shark gets moved. ( who knew they were singular fish, the 2 albinos loved each other )
We have decided we want a planted tank..some fish that are not compatible with the ph and water movements we currently have...a QT tank..more plants...shopping for a few new tanks ensues. The furniture is rearranged...some things we don't need go bye bye...( china hutch? who needs that antique china set anyway..we don't use it...) hour long drives to go look at a tank set up Cheap on Craigslist....afternoons spent wandering LFS and writing copious notes...nights spent in front of the computer reading multiple sites to cross reference water parameters and environmental needs...huge bookmark lists of fish disease identifiers...sigh. yup. We got it bad.